Who you callin CURSED?

The other week, I went to a party in Manhattan (because YOLO) and met two people who each told me interesting things about myself:

“Oh, you are cursed,” a beautiful womyn with waist length braids took my hands as she walked past. It was the most action I’ve had in months. Continue Reading

8 Podcasts That Will Change Your Life (According to an Obsessed Podcaster!)

It is not an understatement when I say, I love podcasts!

If you haven’t heard, I even have a podcast of my very own. Looking for comedic political analysis and millennial foolishness? Check out The Caudacity Podcast after this post!

I started listening to podcasts before they were cool (10+ years ago = street cred) and currently subscribe to around 15 shows (obsessed, much?). I don’t listen to all of them on a regular basis, but I listen to certain shows depending on what I need in that moment.

Today, I am sharing my favorite podcasts that have helped me glow up financially, spiritually, and inspire me creatively. Continue Reading

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How Death Inspired Me to Live

This post isn’t about productivity, organization, or finding inspiration.

It’s a personal reflection about how someone’s death motivated me to live. I’m not writing it for you, though I hope you find something worthwhile here.

I am looking at this website, imperfect and new, and it feels like something is missing. I can’t launch this project until I fix it.

It’s missing me.

So, here I am… and here we go. Continue Reading

Why Your Big Dreams Keep Failing

Your big dreams are likely going to end in failure.

Hear me out.

You have big dreams. Oprah has big dreams. The difference between you and Oprah? At some point, Oprah stopped dreaming and started doing.

This is a simple, but powerful, reminder: actions speak louder than words.

It’s fun to dream. It feels productive to read blogs and write goals in your journal. We spend hours, days, YEARS, talking about our dreams with friends. Time passes and the dream lives on, but you are not any closer to achieving your vision. Continue Reading

8 Tricks for New Thrift Shoppers (Even Macklemore Would be Impressed)

“I’m gonna pop some taaaaags!” (Thrift Shop, Macklemore)

Thrifting is an art. Perhaps even a sport. My mother would be considered a competitive thrifter – finding exquisite pieces for a fraction of the original price. She knew where all the best deals were and which stores had the most quality items.

Luckily, I picked up this penchant for thrifting. Whenever I am looking for something specific, I will price compare until the cows come home. I toggle between websites for ages, drive around from store to store and raid the sale rack. If I can get exactly what I’m looking for at a decent price, it’s worth the time.

If you just aren’t into shopping, don’t have the time, or are brand new to thrifting – I’ve got you, boo! Below are my top 10 tricks for thrifting. Do you have any thrifting tips? Comment below! Continue Reading

6 Life Lessons Every Grad Student Needs to Survive

Once upon a time, I was on track to get my PhD in political science. After three years, I decided to leave the program with my master’s degree and find my happy (like blogging!). During this time, I went through major challenges and learned a lot of hard lessons. Out of ALL the things I’ve learned, these are the MOST important. Continue Reading

Top 5 Mistakes to Avoid in College (Grown Womyn Edition)

This post was requested by a special friend who is beginning college as a grown ass womyn. She wants to start off her journey on the right foot and asked for some advice. I hope my experience is helpful. If you have any additional advice for my homegirl, sound off in the comments below.

Unpopular opinion, but college is not the time for careless mistakes. Sure, oversleeping and partying too much is understandable. Taking out loans without a second thought? Avoiding office hours? All are rookie mistakes that will cost you in the long run. Trust me, I’ve made plenty of poor choices that I am still literally paying for years later. Don’t be like me, get yourself together NOW, not later. Your future self will thank you. Continue Reading

7 Money Saving Hacks (That ACTUALLY WORK)

I have saved hundreds of dollars with these little known tips and now you can too! Don’t play yourself, a little bit goes a long way. Start saving here and there and it will pay off in the long run. Do you have any other tricks that work for you?

Write a buy list

Physically write down the items you wish to buy (description, price, reason for purchase) on a piece of paper or in a notebook. It’s easy to add things to the Amazon wishlist without thinking, but something about writing it down makes it more real (similar to the argument that cash slows spending because you can feel and see it leaving your hands – it’s more real). Continue Reading

3 Simple Ways to Reclaim Your Time (Long Live Maxine Waters)

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Auntie Maxine Waters made this phrase go viral, but the concept? Old as time (get it?). We all have 24 hours in a day – even Beyonce. What you do with this time will set you apart from your peers. When you are intentional with your time, you will see major changes in your life. All of those big dreams that seem impossible will become within reach.

Related post link to why big dreaming leads to failure…

I am currently reading The Productivity Project by Chris Bailey and he says, “It’s what you do with your waking hours… that makes the difference in how productive you are”

Managing your time is not easy when you have others encroaching on your time, energy, and attention. This is why you need a few tips on how to reclaim your time and design your days that get you closer to the life of your dreams. Continue Reading